Ok, not reading others posts, if I redundasize, do forgive.

For Me, its about the Love, I find it easier to Love one whom is "under" Me. Knowing one depends on Me for her needs is very satisfying indeed.

Having her look to Me for her strength, safety, fulfillment is a responsibility I treasure.

her submission means, for Me, that shes found One important enough in her life, to trust, obey, and want to please. One whom she can confide in, talk to, be a friend and servant to. shes sought Me out as hers.....to complete her.

When she is disobedient, I'm crushed, as I find her lack of desire to please sad. I punish only disobedience tho, not disappointment.

I wont tolerate being topped from the bottom.....period. I discuss things with My sub(s), give them opportunity for input, but once agreed upon, the terms are strictly enforced. If she must play games with My authority......is she truly a/My submissive? Is she worthy of all the attenion I lavish on her/them......in short...no, not at all.

I guide, listen, love, and cherish those who choose to submit to Me......I focus on her pleasures, as this in turn satisfies My needs as well.

Now for the debaucherous side, I LOVE, making a girl, get on her knees......look up to Me......and freely do as shes told...regardless of her mood......regardless of anything other than her desire to please her Master/Sir.

I'm short on time, I hope this answers some questions.