Hello Bites and welcome.
It is a popular misconception that everyone here has decades of experience under their belts. A few do, and we all benefit from their experience. However, everyone once took their first step into admitting that they were attracted by this lifestyle and very few are so old that they cannot remember doing so. There are also lots of people here who have also just starting to explore - so you are in good company.
I hope you enjoy exploring the threads, and post from time to time - be it questions or opinions in the knowledge based forums, chat in the general one, stories in the fiction area, pictures in the errrr picture area or just fun in F & G.
cariad