Welcome, Bites -- love the name! As mentioned, everyone here has a lot of different experience, from old beardy types to many who have yet to find a real life partner to share things with at all. You'll also find that as much as we do love the lifestyle and the sex, this is first and foremost a place for fun, acceptance and support -- none of which require anything more than an open mind. I hope you enjoy, and I look forward to hearing more from you!