Lily27, nowgirl, and all the others thank you both for sharing.
I really try to learn whatever I can, including the reasons why. And although very personal offcourse, it sheds some light on the reasons to submit. Most of them I read before, when they were just posted. Today I read them again. And understand much more of it, then I already did then. What strikes me the most is, although everybody is different, a lot of the same reasons come up. Or at least similarities.
I find the human mind fasinating. About the most complex thing in existance. And in the case of a sub possibly even more complex then regularly.
For as long as I can remember I always try to find things out. To suck in all information I can, about just about everything. But offcourse in special the things I'm interested in.
That same urge brought me here to the forums, a half year ago. I've read a lot since then. And the threads like these that I value the most. Things I could not really discover on my own, simply because I don't have it. But you all do, and share it with the rest of us. To learn for yourself, as well as to share your (new found) knowledge with the unknowing.
This, or a similiar response could find it's place in many threads. But I choose this one carefully. As I learnt something from it what has facinated me for quite some time....
...I thank you all