Submissive and stiffness...

[dynamicbuttler]

Oh, pardon my manners... I forgot the one thing that gets me hard the most. CONFIDENCE. I know how cliche and unoriginal this sounds, but it's true. A sheepish, shy domme who looks ashamed or underly confident will get nothing done, and appear more submissive than dominant. Nothing is sexier than a girl who knows what she wants. You should not wonder if we're enjoying what you're doing, but rather wonder what YOU feel like doing next. If you were to fulfill your sub's every fantasy, he wouldn't be much of a sub... he'd be using you as a toy to live out his own fantasies. Besides, as a male sub myself, part of the fun is being told what to do. Sure, I have my little fantasies, but being forced to fulfill the dommes' is SO much more fun!!! Part of the fun is that she will have different preferences. For example, a sub who's never cared much for feet may find himself forced to kiss yours for 20 minutes straight. This will be utterly new to him, and though not his personal fantasy, fun in and of itself.

I sincerely hope you take what I said to heart. All you have to do is rough him up, keep that smirk on your face, and think of him as the toy he is. He'll in the end be much much happier for it. Know what you want. Take it, it's yours.

Good luck