Quote Originally Posted by MrJerseyGuy
We should get Webster to give us a whole BDSM dictionary.

Deviant's Dictionary

Dictionary.com online

The terms dominant or submissive have absolutely nothing to do with sexuality, but every person has their own terms they groups into the "dominant" and "submissive" definitions. So, basically, it can mean what applies to you is the correct definition for you.

It's a hell of a lot easier to say "I'm a dominant" than it is to say "I'm a sexual top with some interests in bondage, torture, sadism and dominance.