A "toy" can be anything that you use wisely. Honestly, my Master can walk into a room without a single "store bought" sex toy and work with what he has. In fact, a great place to find "toys" and "tools" is a kitchen store. Especially if you are into the extreme. And, the very cool thing is that it is much cheaper to make toys out of ordinary things AND it is fun to go places and have people look at you trying them out because they have NO IDEA what you are doing with them. LOL