Quote Originally Posted by Barton
I think that the dominant must know the sub fairly well before doing this. For a stranger to do so would be more than impolite. It could very well be abusive.
Barton.
I agree with the first statement. The thread interests me because my partner and I actually had a discussion about it. When playing I often call her a bitch...little tramp etc. But the words slut, cunt and whore are off limits. By discussing it openly I found that she is highly sensitive to those words because of a past marriage. I don't think I need to go into detail.

As far as using ANY of these terms with someone I don't know...whether online or in real life...I think that's just plain rude.