I've kinda thought about that one. What if you where as small as say a persons hand? Everything would be so much bigger then you...and I'd enjoy the hell outa that. But about the man holding you, I don't think it makes you sound gay. You're a submissive, that's all there is to it. And it's unlikely, though possible, that a woman would be able to subdue you. I think the man just repressents a likely ability to subdue you. My 2 cents.