Originally Posted by CCBlonde
Got to http://www.adultgroupfinder.com and click the search link at the top of the page, toward the right. Type in roleplay or role playing in the search field. The search will net you somewhere between 50 and 125 results for adult-related groups based on role-play ideas, many of which have BDSM flavor. You can also visit IRC and log into any BDSM server and find Gor rooms. They're full of role-players. There are also many available RP chats on IRC.