Quote Originally Posted by SoDom
One thing which is delightful about cyber is....The level of trust is so intimate, or can be. That is why I'd been more focused on the discipline, not the punishment. Learning to give you orgasmic control and You learning to wield it involve "discipline". You already have made great progress I'd say, because the MOST IMPORTANT THING IS - He was honest with you! So I'd say you have the control, honor his respect by working him through this in a way that he WANTS to be more disciplined because he knows there is tremendous joy in it for him in the end. Your pleasure at being served and given the timeless experience of having Control ought to give him deep satisfaction and I'd guess lead to some rather large "releases" in time, no?
I couldn't agree with you more. In training a submissive on-line I concentrate on Discipline and keeping her focused. Then she can begin to "feel" the control over her that she wishes. You are also right in saying this then leads to "tremendous joy for him/her in the end.

A few Dom/mes that are currently involved in an on-line training of a submissive have been posting to a thread called “On-Line Training- Help a First Timer: (http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/sh...1505#post21505).
We had some interesting discussion on “Punishment” and our current discussion is on choosing a “training collar” for a submissive (one that can be worn even in vanilla situations).
Would love to invite all that have posted here to join us.
Please feel free to post your thoughts and views and opinions on on-line training.


SirW