I really find the responses quite interesting. It seems some how every one thinks these women are forcing these people. You and I may not have this particular kink but there are many that do or it wouldn't be a fetish. Now do you and I have such needs probably not but there are those that do. If they did I am sure they wouldn't feel comfortable in sharing them with us with the responses I have read. The site is here to share knowledge and our experiences. I don't think condemning others who participate in the form of domination is a way to encourage them to share their thoughts with us.