I think this speaks to my feelings about this. . .

'Love' is that condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own." (Robert Heinlein, character Jubal Harshaw in Stranger in a Strange Land

Whether it is mental health, physical health, well being, the imperative is that ifyou really care about the person you must care about all of these things and do what ever you can to see that they are taken care of.