Yup. I don't think you'll find a single person on this site you thinks you should give in to this guy. In my opinion, this is just as creepy as a guy asking you to see him exclusively during or before a first date--it's presumptuous and distrespectful to you. Being a Dom doesn't mean being a jerk and ordering people around.

My advice is to keep trusting your instincts. There are a lot of creeps on the internet--men, women, BDSM, and vanilla. You might have to talk to a lot of people before you find someone decent, let alone someone who really suits you. But hang in there. There are great people out there... like, of course, us!