I think this highlights the difference between being a submissive and submitting.

This place is full of Doms, but is not filled with naked subs crawling around at their beck and call.

There are a number of Doms here whom I have grown to know well, and I respect them, as entire people, not just as Dominants. I am extremely selective to whom I submit, that is not an action of disrespect to them, but an act of respect to myself.

Well done Daes, and when it comes to respect, I think you have probably just earned yourself a lot within this community.

cariad