Was trying to work out why I happily allow someone to hold the purse strings for me, but think the kind financial domination which this thread opened with is wrong.

I think that it is to do with responsibility. Although he has control over our finances, I know my Dom would give me his last penny if I needed it, because he considers himself to be responsible for me and truly cares for me. Does the same sense of responsibility apply in these situations? I have no first, or even second hand experience of them, but I suspect the answer is no.

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