Quote Originally Posted by Dslave
Is strength a turn on or a turn off? Just interested in the answers.

There's a HUGE difference between a "fiesty" "submissive" and a strong submissive. A fiesty submissive that wants to be "tamed" or acts like a brat just to get a spanking isn't strong, she's manipulative.

Submissives, actual submissives, should be strong, but they can draw their strength from knowing they are pleasing without being manipulative and can have an opinion without being a smartass.

A brat, or a "tame me" type submissive are not turn-ons to me at all. They are nuisances that give good submissives bad names.