Quote Originally Posted by Daes View Post

So, here are my questions.

Do you think its fair for a dominant person to ask a sub (who is not his own) to request tasks without meeting them?

Am I being too judgmental or closeminded by not obliging him?


Im very biased on the topic so I thought Id get some feedback cause I did start to wonder if I was right to stick to how I felt, and not allowing myself to be pushed... I have a lot of conflicting feelings about it right now, and thought itd be good to get some more opinions. What you think?

~Daes
Um...Respect needs to be earned, (in both directions). That Dom needs to prove his worth before making demands. Any self-respecting slave should definitely make sure of it before taking anything he says as rules.

That guy aparently doesn't listen to you or connect with you regarding your needs. I vote for....don't be too desperate to ignore what reason allready is telling you. Find another guy. I think he's a n00b