Thanks for all the comments, at the moment i just felt like I needed some support. I completely stand by my decision and am proud of myself I didn't fall for a stupid antic like that.

cadence thanks for sharing your experiences with me, I relate whole heartedly.

I've always believed dates should be spent casual, getting to know the person for who they are, and just enjoy their company without expectations in a comfortable environment.

obediant44 I agree Completely, and feel the same way.

I guess I was losing patience, and wondering if I was just shutting him out too quickly rather than just trust my instincts.