I agree with everything everyone else as said. You did the right thing. I am new to D/s and I just love this site. I have leared alot on here. Thank you for posting this because it helps us that don't know alot. Most of what I see in the forums just reinforces what my Sir has told me. He has always been a gentleman and respectful to me. If he asks me to do something and I am not comfortable with it he is fine with that. He tells me all the time that we will take baby steps and that I don't have to do anything that is not comfy to me. There are good ones out there. Good luck in you search and always trust your instincts.

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