Quote Originally Posted by new master
as i stated in my first post it is her body i OWN her mind heart and soul she is my wife AND my slave both equaly
i wonder if what Barton and allalone are getting at though is that submitting with the mind usually means showing willing with the body..otherwise, if you took it to the nth degree, a sub wouldn't technically have to do anything with her body that the dom asked her to, but could keep saying 'oh, but i'm submitting mentally, really'. i am obviously not saying this is the case for you, but you see what i mean? The body, or rather, things that happen to the body are a physical manifestation of submission, they are not, in themselves, the submission, and furthermore, whereas different subs can withstand different amounts of pain/humiliation, getting one's nose pierced when you know someone doesn't really approve, just seems so blatantly cheeky! It can be hard to take pain for a dom..it can be hard to get piercings if you don't want them..it isn't hard NOT to get piercings!!

Anyway, all that's academic now, you have decided you don't mind her having it and want to do something meaningful with it. i don't know of any BDSM symbols that would be suitable for a nose piercing, all i could suggest would be to have her wear the exact opposite of the sort of thing she would have in mind. :[

HTH

sl