Public Displays?

[woodsman'sgame]

That sounds like a wonderful night, Gary. And I can think of other things to add to that. You have set my imagination on go. =)

[Adamoverjules]

Thank you sincerely to those who have replied to far with ideas, but I am thinking maybe I worded my original questions wrong. A vanilla couple can walk through the mall (lets say the mall) and hold hands, or kiss eachother, and doing these things show they are committed to eachother. What I am more looking for is things like that, something that jules can do for me in public to show her submission to me. I, as her Dom, can hold her by the wrist while we are walking around, and other things, but these little things are more of what I am looking for, although Gary definitly had a great night planned, and I'm sure we all as Doms have thought of a night similar to that. And lucy, thank you for the link, it had some great tips on keeping jules in line
Thanks all.
Adam

[GaryWilcox]

Oh! : smacks forehead : Here's an idea for you, then.

Dress her, take her to the mall, and have her walk a certain number of steps behind you with her hands clasped behind her back, as one display of submission. She should not be allowed to talk to strangers or answer other without your permission. Do not dress her in ways that will get either of you arrested or assaulted, naturally. When you sit down for a rest, say, in front of a fountain or some other crowd drawing area, have her sit at your feet and draw herself around your leg, like a slave-girl from a Conan cover, resting her cheek on your mid-thigh.

That just sounds like a good exercise-- whether it will suffice or not, I couldn't say.

[Katmandu]

SIGH! Gary, where have you been all my life!

[Learn Humility]

My sub and I have enjoyed the following:

Keep in mind, BTW, that we live in New York City area, so you can get away with quite a bit....

1) I require that she wear an impossibly short miniskirt in public, and then periodically finger her in front or back as we walk.

2) While riding in the car, I pull her panties down to around her knees and leave them there. We get some very interested looks from people passing in trucks, minvans and SUVs.

3) I require that she finger herself, or I finger her, fully exposed, as in the above.

4) I require that she have an "accident" and wet herself in public, then walk around all day in that state.

5) Wearing her little miniskirt, having her sit on a park bench with her legs spread, and sitting nearby to watch the looks that she gets while I enjoy her humiliation.

6) Keeping her collared and leashed at all times in public, and walking her that way.

7) Sitting in the park, and requiring that she sit at my feet on her knees, with her hands behind her back and head and eyes cast downward.

[punksub]

Thank you sincerely to those who have replied to far with ideas, but I am thinking maybe I worded my original questions wrong. A vanilla couple can walk through the mall (lets say the mall) and hold hands, or kiss eachother, and doing these things show they are committed to eachother. What I am more looking for is things like that, something that jules can do for me in public to show her submission to me. I, as her Dom, can hold her by the wrist while we are walking around, and other things, but these little things are more of what I am looking for, although Gary definitly had a great night planned, and I'm sure we all as Doms have thought of a night similar to that. And lucy, thank you for the link, it had some great tips on keeping jules in line
Thanks all.
Adam

There are several small things that you could do but they might not be noticed by the public. Many of these would only be noticed by active participants in the scene. The smallest things would by how there head is placed. My mistress has placed the rule that my head is never to be held as high or higher then hers. Me owner enjoys showing me off in public making it blatantly obvious that i am her slave. She walks me on a leash, sometimes she instructs me to walk ahead of her and to go to where I feel like going only to give me sharp jerks on the leash attached tp a correctional collar (which is a collar with prongs pointing into the neck) I am never to sit at the same level she is. If she is sitting on a ledge or bench I am to be seated at her feet clinging to her legs, or occasionally kissing her legs or feet if instructed to do so.

[midnightsky]

o hmm ive done that with the correctional collar before in a formal setting (though it was someone i wasn;t involved with- they just needed some quick training ) neways...


...what about loose handcuffs/something that binds the arms together? or even the legs? handcuffing the person to you (or one of each person's arms to each other) can be amusing too, just make sure you have the key handy

[punksub]

o hmm ive done that with the correctional collar before in a formal setting (though it was someone i wasn;t involved with- they just needed some quick training ) neways...


...what about loose handcuffs/something that binds the arms together? or even the legs? handcuffing the person to you (or one of each person's arms to each other) can be amusing too, just make sure you have the key handy

I have had my hands tied together and led around by that strap... so yeah handcuffing would work. It can get complicated though. The reason being that i live in las vegas and she decides to do this on the strip where there are an ungodly amount of people so i cant really fall behing or else people would get caught in the strap.

[muhshilltopper]

o hmm ive done that with the correctional collar before in a formal setting (though it was someone i wasn;t involved with- they just needed some quick training ) neways...


...what about loose handcuffs/something that binds the arms together? or even the legs? handcuffing the person to you (or one of each person's arms to each other) can be amusing too, just make sure you have the key handy

Would people (mainly police) let you walk around with handcuffs on or being lead around by a leash in public? Not to be pessimistic or anything but I am just curious as to how that would fly in public.

-Topper

[punksub]

Would people (mainly police) let you walk around with handcuffs on or being lead around by a leash in public? Not to be pessimistic or anything but I am just curious as to how that would fly in public.

-Topper

My mistress does it to me all the time. It freaks people out but we haave never expierienced any problems. Sure some people are assholes and will say something to the dom/domme and sub but they can't do much about it. It is not breaking any laws. The laws also depend on what state you live in. If you are interested but live in a state that oppresses many sexual acts you might want to make sure there is no law against public humiliation.

[midnightsky]

Would people (mainly police) let you walk around with handcuffs on or being lead around by a leash in public? Not to be pessimistic or anything but I am just curious as to how that would fly in public.

-Topper

umm im pretty sure some police saw me and a guy handcuffed together...they didnt care where i was at the time as long as you werent causing a distrubance etc. they would however have a problem with it in the city i live in (other was a place i was during the summer) cause the town is small and really really conservative.

I havent had problems ever with guys on leashes in formal/nonformal settings (past maybe being told that they should take it off).

[muhshilltopper]

well thanks for all of the responses,
I guess I will have to think about it a bit more. I think that I may feel uncomfortable the first time around just like anything else (BDSM or not) but after that I would get more used to it.

[embre]

I must admit that I'm a bit jealous of those who live in a place where being lead in public on a leash wouldn't have the real and morality police beating down their door
I think however, you were probably looking for some actions that were a bit more discrete. So, thought I'd just give you a few ideas Master and I have used or seen implemented by others.

Instuct your girl walk only on your right side, one step behind.
Have her open doors for you.
Don't allow her to sit/stand until you have first.
Have her ask permission to leave your presence.

When out at a restaurant:
Order dinner for her. This can actually be tricky sometimes. I've seen so many instances where the waitress will turn to me after Master has ordered the main part of my meal and begin asking me questions such as what kind of dressing or potato I'd like.
Don't allow her to begin eating until you have.
If you drink coffee, have her prepare your cup for you. Adding the right amount of sugar, creamer ect.

Hope those help just a little.