Princi - I am glad you posted. It's refreshing to see someone write how they feel, rather than just jumping on the bandwagon of what everyone else says.

I don't care if anyone else disagrees with me, but I always give their view some consideration, because, what if my view is the wrong one.

Now as far as how you view it, there are some things about BDSM that must be considered when thinking about Domination. Yes, the pro sites are just that, pro. There shouldn't be any expectation that there would be a relationship of sorts. I don't care if its viewed as Dominant prostitution, so what, there are plenty of pro Dom/mes out there.

What I do have issue with is in BDSM there is an exchange of power, even in this financial arena. As such there is also going to be a need for care of the submissive. I believe it becomes neglect when these pro dommes have a submissive that seems to think this domme actually gives a shit about them, actually 'gifts' them money. Now if the relationship is similar to other pro domme services (pay to get your ass welted, zero aftercare) and the submissive is aware of this going in. Then I have no issues. However, I have seen it where it wasn't that way, and I was rather displeased that it was seen as BDSM.