Agreed allalone. The fellow that did that to her was a bully asshole in dom's clothing.

As for Whipit/Player/WhateverTheFuckHisNameIsThisTime - he's an ass.

Jaeangel, you need not apologize for anything. Player does not deserve any apology from you. His sole purpose is to stir up shit. I haven't seen his many reincarnations, but from what I've seen and heard he has no issues with making people feel badly about themselves.

He is not worth the effort it would take to wipe him off the bottom of your shoe like a piece of old gum.

*hugs* Jaeangel