Ok guys and gals thanks for your replies they have been very interesting to read, but alas we have decided that the 24/7 thing is not for her ,and that the D/s thing should be for a bit of fun now and again,after trying it for 3 months, almost to the day we have decided to step back and it looks like i have two choices now, be true to myself and seek out someone that can enjoy the lifestyle with me 24/7 or otherwise, or live a vanilla life with a bit of saturday night kink now and again.......Very Difficult choice, live a lie, or take the plunge
my goodness this is going to be hard......Having had many years experiences involving bondage, D/s as a roleplay thing, i really thought the transition to making it a more serious aspect of our lives would be easier for her, ok we may have just been learning as far as the more S/M related things were concerned, but she did not even enjoy the control aspects it seems, so i decided to stop it, the consensual aspect being very important to me..........

Wish me luck, might be looking at the Personals section in the not to distant future...................LOL