tessa, His_blizzard and of course sbbe,
I will tell you all that I am proud of you for being who you are and proud of it.
tessa your likening it to the gay community was just great. I am old enough to remember when only a few gays went public and that allowed the straight world to act as if being gay was an act against God. I believe that we do need to learn from them and get the nillas to see us as humans.
Be Proud
Russell