Well, I want to say Bondage is first, but I like the pain as well, although mostly the pain as I'm tied down. But then again, it takes a strong Dom to get this sub trussed up, therefore, I like/need the Dominance/ Submission aspect. Don't care much for the humiliation, though. I mean, why? If you want your sub to be less-than human, what value is there in him/her? Maybe I'm just conceited. Maybe I just need a good strong Dom to tie me up and.....
that brings us back to 'doe' !