Well, I haven't been able to get past having a strong gag reflex, so I can't help with that one, but I'm happy to pass along what else I've learned ...

* Loving having a cock in your mouth, admiring it, inspecting it visually, kissing it reverently ... well, enthusiasm in general seems to go a long way.

*For me, kneeling between His legs works best. I am most comfortable there, can get good access to everything and I don't get a backache from it ... so I can keep at it much longer from this position.

* Nikka is right about location, location, location. That place underneath where the head meets the shaft (whatever that's called) ... mmmmmmm ... that seems to be the golden spot. Lightly licking and kissing there ... rubbing your lips there ... that always seems to yield a variety of groans and moans.

* With your perfectly manicured, ladylike nails, gently hold the shaft while you are doing something a bit naughty like glossing your lips with precum ...

* Alternately kiss and lick the underbelly of the shaft -- trace a vein with the tip of your tongue. I'm quite a licker in general ... up the shaft, over the balls, under the balls, over the head ... I give more of a lickjob ...

* Since I can't really deep throat, I tend to hold the base of the shaft and squeeze/jerk a bit when I finally do get to sucking and bobbing on the head (if it ever gets that far ... ) Or, sometimes I just keep my mouth open with the cockhead at my lips as I jerk Him off, milking the cum into my open mouth (or other places).

I'd still like to figure out how to deep throat someday ... I have this fantasy of being able to take a cock all the way in and swallowing on it to make my throat tight on it ... mmmmmmm ... someday ...