My Introduction

[Finding_Fantasy]

That'll teach ya!

[LIONESSINBOOTS]

hey girl I know exactly what you mean. I still do hte andahve lol. anyone know where I can get a typist lol. my friends are use to my typing lol hmmmm having my arse smacked each typo I made Iwouldn't be able to sit .well im off take care talk to you soon

[redEva]

Originally posted by BruceBoxer
Sweetie, I like you women types brown, white, yellow, black, red--hell, if'n you were green macht nicht to me! ...

So nice to know you do not discriminate Master BruceBoxer, i on the other hand have to admit to prefer my world in Black and White. well some Red for the color sake maybe

[Swashbuckler]

I have been around for a while, so I am not exactly new..., but I thought I would introduce myself. So I am ~Swash~, and very pleased to meet all of Y/you.

I am a Switch, though seems I am mostly Dominant of late. But I refute any flakiness... Crazy, perhaps, but flaky....nah.

I have enjoyed reading lots of wonderful stories since I was introduced to this wonderful place. Hopefuly, my woefully inadequate dinosaur computer will someday allow me to submit some of my own fantasies. But for now, someone has hidden my sledge hammer and so I can not pound the keyboard with that right now. (I hate computers, they hate me; it just works out that way.)

Enough about me, though, it was nice meeting you all.

~Swash~

[Tiger]

Originally posted by BDSM_Tourguide
... the site and boards will remain up long enough for new members to see this warm, welcoming thread and post to it.

I hope Jinn and the tech crew can get everything sorted out soon.

Well, finally, everything looks fine now after moving to a new server/company. It was a pain to move things around, but it's much better to have a more stable server

[dougy1949]

I am a new member. However, I have been going to this site for a year or more reading stories. They are great. I have been submitting a story for the last month or two. I am looking for a nice mean lady to communicate with by email.

[dougy1949]

I am new at this. I have been reading stories on the BDSM Library for a long time. Would like to find a nice mean woman to exchange emails with. Any help would be appreciated

[Finding_Fantasy]

Hello everyone, tis moi. Sorry I haven't posted in a long time. You know, that life thing kind of gets in the way sometimes...now if I actually HAD a life, that statement might actually be true!!

Just like to welcome all the new people. Hope ya have fun and find what you are looking for! Swashbuckelr: Not flaky huh? LOL Well, I have yet to meet a "true" switch as we define it...just a lot of indecisive people Maybe you'll prove me wrong!

[LoKi Kat]

Hello! I just joined today, but had been reading the stories for quite a while, perhaps the last year?

I found the forum for the first time yesterday, and started reading the messages and decided to start writing and joining the discussions.

I am a female, married and submissive(to a point).

Every day life I tend to be on the dominate side.. I like to drive, I like to have control over what goes on for the most part, and am dominate at work, however, when it comes to in the bedroom, sexually I am submissive.

Just part of the balance everyone needs in their life. Nice thing is, my husband is the same way. Mainly submissive between work and home, but sexually dominate.

Otherwise, thanks for the welcome and I look forward to reading more intriguing posts!

Becca

[Finding_Fantasy]

Hey there Becca and welcome to the group. I can understand where you are coming from. I have to be dominant in my job, because if I wasn't I'd never get any work done. Though for me, it's not a choice, it's necessity.

I am married to my dominant as well. We started out as a d/s couple but moved to more of a commitment you could say.

[LoKi Kat]

Thank you for the welcome!

And yes, my husband and I did that as well. We went from strict D&S to a more vanilla relationship, though we do have our perks and the occassional scene is still fun and keeps things different.

It works out nicely ~grins~

[longrover]

When I checked back into the forum recently after moving to dsl I discovered I've been a member since some time in 2001. You never realize how you're handicapping yourself until you stop, do you?

Anyhoo, I've been enjoying the site for years now, even went through advanced search with all my fav likes and donts marked, had a great time but the list kept getting longer. I'll have to do it aqain, right?

I've been reading and playing for years, back to about 1970 for Story of O, earlier than that for hit-n-miss, paying close attention since the '80's. (drooling)

My fantasies are sub (female pov) but my life is dom, rare switch, mostly bondage in any case. Married since '68 to the same woman, no kids.

I'm very fond of several writers here - no names to avoid leaving someone out.

Lon

[fireyone456]

It's nice to join a forumn that welcomes and invites new members!! I look forward to reading posts and responding when I have something to contribute!

[Kostly]

I found this site about 3 years ago... and have continued to come ever since... It is my only source for erotic fiction... But I have never used the forums here because I didnt really totally acknowledge my Kink until recently when I came out. I have had submissives before this, but I always considered myself a romantic.

I started using the forums here recently after beign attacked, Flamed, and Bashed on Bondage.com for posting new Ideas and thoughts and after the Moderators didnt do anything to prevent such abuse, I decided that Bondage.com forums were a joke... I wasnt the only one that felt that I was beign treated unfairly. I received 10 emails from people who felt sorry for my situations.

Unfortunatly my temper hit a boiling point after one of my threads where hijacked by the "forum sluts" (1000+ post members who have no LIVES) that posted messages with useless and offtopic posts. Their purpose was to silent me by makeing it unlikely anyone would wade through their crap to see the actual content.

So I responded with a simple note to the moderators telling them what was going on. But was called a "IMMATURE CHILD" by her. So I requested that the moderator "No LONGER contact me" via email, and that I would consider any contact as harrassment. She ignored me and continued to send me messages... She also said Hijacking wasnt against Forum policy...

They pushed me passed the point of beign able to back down... so I took Justice in my own hands...

I posted over 300 Replys to Varous old topics within one hour. VIRTUALLY and TOTALLY TAKING OVER the forums... after the hour my account and IP was banned. Fortunately I have a DYNAMIC IP address, so if I wanted to I could return. I did decide though that I have sought enough vegence and that I am REALLY not interested in Returning to those players and Bullys.

For all of you out there that have ever been BULLIED before, we can finally mark a win in our category. So now I search for a place where I wont be so quickly judged. Were I wont be judged for my spelling alone, but what I say. I really hope I found it...

BTW, I am not really a distructive person, but I was picked on as a young child quite extensively... Well The actions of these individuals were less mature then that of my earlier days, and I felt forced to seek revenge on the behalf of all... I appoligize to anyone who may have been unfairly targetted in this move, but I gave it allot of thought, and felt that revenge must be sought.

Thanks
Kostly

[zeus]

aw...thanks fer makin us feel welcome..btw..im frm india...ne other indian memebers

[ladyB]

Hey there,

Thought I'd jump on this bandwagon as well, been around for a couple of weeks, and having fun, and getting to know some of the personalities around here...

History of being from South Africa, then New Zealand, most recently Texas and now Belgium, so you could say I get around a bit, which is not always a bad thing!

So *HI* and thanks for the coffee/tea that we got in the welcome!!

[gamoses]

i'm so impressed with the warm welcome to newbies! too many net communities seem to somewhat resent those who infringe on their little groups, so this is very refreshing and appreciated.

thanks to all of you who make us feel less insecure about our various kinky preferences. your examples are greatly needed.

[pam]

Hello --

I'm new to these forums but not to the website; have been reading the stories for well over a year I believe.

Female submissive, somewhat older, know what I like and how I like it

Dominant, sadistic, hairy men with a fondness for brutal, relentless throat fucking grab my attention every time. Have many fantasies in very 'taboo' areas and am not sure which I want to to cross over the threshhold into reality. I guess when the time is right, with the right person -- I'll know.

Since age 15 or so, seeing a cowboy movie with bondage (stop laughing!!!) I've been intrigued, turned-on, hooked, insatiable and willing to experiment. Years and years ago had some SMBD websites and participated in certain newsgroups, but that seems like another lifetime.

Anyway, that's me. Always interested in new friends, learning as much as I can and expanding my uhm horizons, so to speak

[veru_skjava]

Just popped into this thread, realizing I haven't been here in a longgg time.

So sorry to have failed to welcome you all to the forums. Its truly wonderful here and I hope you enjoy yourselves.

**offers iced coffee, lemonade, and assorted munchies to all**

veru skjava

[InnerTemptress]

thanks for the welcome ...

i guess i should fill in my profile but for now .. i'm submissive, late 30s and from toronto, canada

[slavelucy]

...i have only just seen this thread welcoming new people! i am slavelucy, i am 24, from the UK and a married female submissive. i have been coming on here for about a year or so reading the stories but only recently discovered the forums etc. Looking forward to getting to know everyone.

slavelucy x

[Thingul]

First of all: thanks for the warm welcome, the tea and the coffee. If you'd happen to come to the Netherlands, be sure to drop me an email and I'll make sure to have some coffee *and* tea standing ready for you.

About me:
Am quite the dominant type at work and in public. The terms "perfectionist" and "control freak" would be approriate.
Sexually I am more the submissive type and I love to be tied down, helpless, out of control...

On the other hand: with the right person I can be occasionally sexually dominant. But only if it pleases her

Byebye,
Marcel

[longrover]

Welcome, Thingul. I couldn't have said it better - never have, in fact, though I've tried often enough.

Lon
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Sufficiently advanced technologies are indistinguishable from magic. - Arthur C. Clark

[veru_skjava]

Welcome Thingul,

I sure can relate to that statement. When I have shared that I have a submissive nature all my life, many who know me professionally or even personally as a mom have commented that I must be confused. *giggles*

I found a wonderful article on Mistress Steeles site in the champer called top space, subbie top space I believe.

In the article it described perfectly the way I have felt. As Chief of Social Work in the Navy I had little if no tolerance for screw offs (screw ups were a large part of the population I served.) At home I am indeed a control freak (well OK I admit I am at work as well.)

However sexually I have been able to be the "top" only briefly, it is NOT something I am into.

Then when I found... hm no that is not how it was, then when i was found by a Dominant that was able to see me for who I am, the potential I had, and make me his, chain me, enslave me, and in doing so free me beyond anything I could have ever imagined.

I found that my lifelong sexual desires ( am only speaking for myself) were indicative of the interpersonal dynamic that would best work for me in a relationship. I found D/s and my life was complete.

I think when we are able to recognize the inner nature versus the required nature of our daily life we find the peace and harmony that is so essential to enjoying our lives .

Welcome to the forums I do hope you find it as pleasant as I do.

*offers banana bread with hazelnut coffee*

veru

yikes edits realizing I need to drink more coffee, serving it is not helping my spelling. *giggles*

[Guardian2114OT]

Hello! I am me... Nope, that doesn't help.

How about.... I'm Linda and I'm from central Maine. I have been reading the stories on this site since I discovered it in 1997 or 1998. It wasn't until last year, however, that I discovered that these just weren't written by people with sick thoughts like me! It is an actual way of life. *MAJOR SIGH OF RELIEF* (Yeah, I can be a little slow on the uptake at times!! LOL)

I am submissive in nature and enjoy some pain. (Female- if the name didn't clue you in! LOL )

I'm going to combine a couple of purposes in here, and this is the other one. Someone asked about what you read/don't read. About the only type of story I won't read is one with snuff. I read one once- and I can still picture the scene the way it was written. *shudder* My imagination can paint WAY too vivid pictures!!

Guess that's enough for now. Other than that I usually just lurk. So, you might now see me again for a while.

Linda/kiz

[boccaccio2000g]

[QUOTE]Originally posted by pam
[B]Hello --

I'm new to these forums but not to the website; have been reading the stories for well over a year I believe.

Female submissive, somewhat older, know what I like and how I like it

Dominant, sadistic, hairy men with a fondness for brutal, relentless throat fucking grab my attention every time.


Since age 15 or so, seeing a cowboy movie with bondage...
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

Pam,

You might enjoy "The Outlaw's Revenge", written by my hard-riding alter ego, Big Jake. Black Jack Slocum meets the particulars of your tastes precisely, and I think he would grab your, er, attention, and hold it quite successfully. Particulary in Chapter 14 --"Raped in the Shadow of the Hanging Tree" . A word of caution -- Jack's a mean hombre and "Revenge" is a violent story.

But if you like your men and your fiction rough and raw, Jack's adventures (and those of his ornery sidekick, Ernie the Weasel) might be just the ticket.


Boccaccio

[pam]

I'm about to go read it now, thank you -- the more violent, the more I enjoy them

*blush*

[mica]

Just wanted to introduce myself. I have been reading stories at this site for three months and decided to check out your forums. Lots here that interest me. I know it sounds strange, but just recently realized what a turn on it is for me to be controlled by a man. I am a 46 year old female that's friends with a very dominant 31 year old man. All my past relationships were on equal grounds and bored the hell out of me. Only problem right now is I would like to move towards a more master/slave relationship than he seems to be interested in. Any words of advice?

[Dr. Phil]

Hi, I've been using the handle "Dr. Phil" for about 12 years now. I used to write a lot of stories when I first started, but haven't written much the past few years. My name really is Phil, and I really am a Doctor. Not a medical doctor, but I do have a PhD in Science. I don't do anything remarkable or sinister with it. I work for a private company that makes everyday stuff that people can buy in everyday stores. Very vanilla.

In real life I am also quite vanilla. I avoid personal pain wherever possible and I could never have the heart to actually hurt a person, even if they wanted me to. I can pretend real good, though! If I were ever in a scene, no safe word would be needed because I'd have to stop as soon as the woman began to show a few tears. People can't go against their own nature.

However, in my fantasy world, thing are quite different! My genre is one of humiliation. Intense humiliation. I don't care if it's a woman humiliating a man, a man humiliating a woman, or a woman humiliating another woman. I love the fantasy of the shame and degradation, and humiliation, and ... well, in the words of Tom Lehrer, "it makes me smile".

The reference to Tom Lehrer should be a clue to my age. I'm over fifty and quite happily married. I let my wife read one of my stories many years ago (one of the milder ones) and it just didn't do anything for her. No big deal. I don't want to live the scene, I just want to dream the dream.

I've uploaded several of my stories to this web site. If you enjoy blackmail, intense shame, exposure, humiliation, and no blood or broken bones, then you might enjoy them. If you don't like the F/m ones, try one of the M/f ones. Of course, EVERYBODY loves F/f, right!!!

My favorite authors include Parker, Jane Parks, MrSpraycan, and Couture. My favorite color is gray (I know), and my favorite ice cream flavor is vanilla. Go figure!

- Dr. Phil

[Finding_Fantasy]

Glad to meet ya!

What is nice though is that BDSM isn't just revolved around pain. I mean I don't like pain. I can take a lot of it, but that doesn't mean I enjoy it. I am more into the whole mental aspect of it.