K - well, deep throat looks fantastic and I know women who've wanted to master it...two who have...
But truly its not that fantastic as a physical experience - IMHO!
I think that's mainly cos the pressure from the mouth/tongue/throat doesn't quite get to the right places on (my) cock.
But my current sub and cock slut really loves the sensation of truly taking as much of my cock into her mouth/throat as she can manage. For her it was partly about the challenge and partly about proving she can do anything she sees on a porn video. She loves the position with her head haning off the end of the bed BTW...but that's more in the forkm of face fucking for us from where I can torture her nipples and cunt simultaneously.
So what does work? Well, in my view women often miss the point that its the *down* stroke which counts the most. Just cos we ejaculate upwards does not mean you have to milk it out of us!
Really, I think in terms of maintaining a nice pressure/stimulation there's actually a point maybe about three quarter way down the shaft where your lips should be and this allows your tongue to do its stuff up near the head. Tonguing along the underside is pretty helpful!
But of course the basic up and down thing is the main element.
Its great when a woman wants to play her tongue around all her favourite parts of my cock - I'd encourage that of course! *grin* Licking of (shaved) balls and some *gentle* sucking is also a great starting point.
But yeah - in the end its the up/down or in/out...the sights and sounds. So I guess I'd say just take your time and enjoy it and communicate that enjoyment. There is no *right* way - the fun is in the journey!!!
Cheers.
J