Well I must say, Being new to this forum and any other BDSM Forum I can gladly say this topic caught My eye. Very interesting.

You have very good points in Your post. I agree fully and I can relate to all of it. When I am in a scene I feel that way, But I do not let Myself get as deep as I can go for the fear of things getting out of hand and Me harming My baby. I do get in pretty deep though. Heh. I love it.