raped for being sub?

[Driveslikeagirl]

First of all, thanks Gary for the kind words.

Now about the Kobe Bryant case...

I try not to be judgmental, but there are a few absolutes in life that I stick to. One of them is that there is nothing scummier than the following dregs of humanity:

Rapists, child molesters, wife beaters (in the bad way, not the *fun* way ), arsonists, anyone who claims to be raped or sexually harassed when they were NOT, and any woman who is pregnant and lies about the father of her baby.

Whether or not the accuser in the Bryant case falls into the above "scumbag roll call", I don't know. The tragic thing is that the whole episode sends a message to rape victims: shut up and go away, or you'll be hunted like a dog.

[myri_SN]

15 months ago when all this happened i was told go to the police that was rape, but i didn't want to tell people what i do in my private life and i didn't think it would change anything that happened. however i did tell several people who were in the same caht than me what had happened so they knew about him. a few months ago when i told my master about it he said i could either still go to the police or if i don't want to i should try and forget about it as things can't be changed anymore. i only started this thread just to see what and if something similar happens more often with people who think they are doms and try to take advantage of people. i class them as bullies.

[Driveslikeagirl]

I don't blame you for being reluctant to go to the police, Myri. I just hope that the jerk who did that to you gets his comeuppance. Karma, street justice, however it happens. Despite evidence to the contrary, deep down I HAVE to believe that people like that get what they deserve eventually. *crosses fingers*

In the meantime, telling someone to move on and get over it (like your master told you) may seem like a helpful thing to say to the person saying it, but it isn't always helpful advice. If only it were that easy, we'd all have less problems in life, wouldn't we? I'm sure what he meant was that you should get your power back from the jerk who did this to you (yes, I read Gary Zukav. ;-) ) "Just get over it" tends to make the person feel like they're overreacting, which is probably not what your master meant. You hang in there.

[myri_SN]

well can't undo it and he thinks gettign upset about it doesn't do much good, only makes me upset and sad.

[Mobius]

Street Justice. Maybe Myri you should get some of your sub-by friends together and invite this jerk over for a little party and then turn the tables on him. Tie him up and fist him in the you don't want to know were. Oh with out any lube either. I bet that would have him looking over his shoulder for quite a while. Buck up you little Luxembourg minx.