raped for being sub?

[Driveslikeagirl]

I don't blame you for being reluctant to go to the police, Myri. I just hope that the jerk who did that to you gets his comeuppance. Karma, street justice, however it happens. Despite evidence to the contrary, deep down I HAVE to believe that people like that get what they deserve eventually. *crosses fingers*

In the meantime, telling someone to move on and get over it (like your master told you) may seem like a helpful thing to say to the person saying it, but it isn't always helpful advice. If only it were that easy, we'd all have less problems in life, wouldn't we? I'm sure what he meant was that you should get your power back from the jerk who did this to you (yes, I read Gary Zukav. ;-) ) "Just get over it" tends to make the person feel like they're overreacting, which is probably not what your master meant. You hang in there.

[myri_SN]

well can't undo it and he thinks gettign upset about it doesn't do much good, only makes me upset and sad.

[Mobius]

Street Justice. Maybe Myri you should get some of your sub-by friends together and invite this jerk over for a little party and then turn the tables on him. Tie him up and fist him in the you don't want to know were. Oh with out any lube either. I bet that would have him looking over his shoulder for quite a while. Buck up you little Luxembourg minx.