TJ- LOL!

AndrewBlack- thanks, thats me in the avatar after a nice spanking!

I agree subs should take a more active approach, but then again I think that goes for everything, not just first exchanges. I try to actively submit to my Dominant, showing him my submission and inspiring/initiating certain shows of his Dominance. I know it is hard to be a Dom constantly being relied upon to 'make things happen' so I try to help with that on occassion. I think more subs should take more of an active approach in submission instead of waiting for the next command. (I don't mean topping from the bottom btw) In fact, I'm inspired to start a thread...