Quote Originally Posted by ella
I have never met a man or a woman who would take me on a journey that I wanted. I have always been open and straightforward about what I like and although a couple of times I had been indulged, I still felt that it was done more as a favour, not for mutual enjoyment.
So here I am right now - I guess trying to find more about myself to begin with, and to meet people that share similar tastes. I suppose I would like to meet somebody - a dominant sensual man or woman - who will help me explore my sexuality on-line first with a possibility of a personal meeting.
What is usually the most important step in any journey is the First one. So congratulations on doing that. Sometimes the longest and possibly most fulfilling journeys start with one simple step.

Your's is a journey of discovery. There are many paths available to one in the journey. At the end of the journey is the discovery of your submissive soul. What you seem to be asking for is a Dominant who will guide you in this journey. There isn’t a set speed or even specific markers that need to be met. The journey usually consists of wonderful times and also times when you and your D/s partner need to slow down and talk about what might have misfired. Talking about everything and allowing questions on all things is really the most important quality in a Training Dominant.
D/s is actually all in the mind. You don’t need any toys, chains, whips or anything else but the mind set and will to Dominate or submit. What you do need is the willingness, and eagerness to explore this lifestyle whether beginning on-line or in real life.
One last point, you mentioned your attractiveness. While that might be good or bad in some relationships, in a D/s one it actually doesn’t matter. What is important is the deepness of your conviction in discovering your submissive soul. The “beauty” in that is immeasurable. Feel free to either post here or email me (check my profile for the address), if you wish to discuss this a bit more. Good luck in your journey.

SirW