Quote Originally Posted by myri_SN
did you need an excuse to punish her?
This is really another topic for another thread, but IMDO, in D/s it's important to keep "punishment" separate from play.

If I feel like hurting a slave for fun, the only excuse I need is that I feel like it; it would lower me to have to make up a reason. But if I punish a slave, it's because sie has genuinely done something wrong and it matters. The whole dynamic is different and more serious.