Master 514,

Moving away from the whole grammar issue, because lets face it, I took a career in design to get away with writing as little as possible for the rest of my life.

I honestly think that in all the situations you have talked about, none of the members concerned were thinking: "wouldn't it be funny if...." I am also fairly sure that they were of the feeling that they had taken all necessary safety aspects into consideration before trying whatever activity they were undertaking. I seriously doubt Jeangel would have been doing what she was doing thinking: "I am probably going to get this dildo stuck up my arse, but what the hell lets do it anyway, it'll be funny."

We all have to learn something sometime and as long as you have taken what you consider suitable precaution, then I don't feel it can be considered childish or irresponsible behaviour. When posting on this thread I don't think Jeangel wasn't saying "wasn't I silly when I did this, but boy, it was bloody funny, lets all laugh at my expense and call me an immature and irresponsible child shall we" More likely she was trying to say "I was experimenting and having a bit of fun when I got into a spot of bother. As a word of warning to all the other members, don't do what I did, it could be a costly and embarrassing mistake and you shouldn't have to learn it in the way I did." Now that she has told us, those who were unaware of those risks before, now may think twice before doing what we may have considered safe and we can all learn and benefit from her unfortunate (but ever so slightly funny) incident.

Thats just my opinion any way