Quote Originally Posted by Cage
But the thing is: the only thing that's better than forcing someone to do something they think or pretend they don't want is when you push them to the point that they revel in it and beg for it. So if someone's in the mood for a little punishment or humiliation, I want them to ask me for it. I want them to say it out loud, so that they can hear it. I want them to need it so badly that they are willing to work for it and prostrate themselves for it. I want them to push their superego aside and let their id rampage. I want their ego to sit there and watch, horrified -- and yet, oddly aroused -- so that when it's all over their conflicting inner voices have come a little bit closer to understanding each other.

So something as effortless as "accidentally" breaking a rule or being a brat just isn't an acceptable shortcut around all of that.
Oh my...my, my, my! Words completely fail me. So very glad they didn't do the same to you! Thank you ever so much for sharing that little gem. ~begins the process of trying to breathe normally once again~