i'm 5.4" and 180 lbs. Of course, i am not playboy material, but that doesn't mean i cant be beautiful. Too many people are following a media ideal. i guess every one's body has a norm. Some are skinnier and some are larger and some in between. No matter how hard they exercise, some peoples bodies just fight hard to stay in the norm. This is true for me. i have 40-f breasts, and thick and muscular limbs. In my opinion, its more important to worry about health concerns than dress size (come on, Marilyn Monroe was size 16). I can run a mile in 7 minutes, so i care less about being size 18, and my Master loves me reguardless.
P.S. Screw all the jerks who say that larger or smaller people are ugly.