I am in full agreement with the opinions and advice posted by BDSM_Tourguide, slavelucy, woodman'sgame and kibbick. It is all a learning experience. Also, based on the facts as described in Slave_Poodle's original post, the incident appears to have been an honest mistake, with no hint of abuse.Originally Posted by Slave_Poodle
On the other hand, Slave_Poodle, you may want to ask yourself the following questions:
Do you want your next punishments to be real or just a game?
Which punishments do you feel should be more severe: the fun-I-love-you-beatings or the you-really-screwed-up-this-time floggings?
Why do you want to be punished at all?
Do you really think it is OK to be flogged beyond your limit just because is "Punishment"?
Did you really go beyond your limit this last time?
Now that I think about it, your owner should also go through those questions. I am sure you will both learn from the resulting dialog and will enjoy yourselves even more as you experience more of this lifestyle.