What could your partner do better?

[duktig flicka]

Hmmm, maybe you could hint for him to set some tasks for you while he's at work?

[Pandora's Box]

I have. Often. Unfortunately he's a workaholic.

As it is things have taken a turn for the worse as now we get the pleasure of fighting about me feeling neglected and his hurt feelings for me making him feel like an inadequate dominant.

Whatever. What will be, will be.

[allalone46]

I have. Often. Unfortunately he's a workaholic.

As it is things have taken a turn for the worse as now we get the pleasure of fighting about me feeling neglected and his hurt feelings for me making him feel like an inadequate dominant.

Whatever. What will be, will be.

Sonds like he needs a vacation. I get the same way. when I have been working to long with out a break. And when I say a break, I menfrom work, and not just a weekend but longer. He needs to get his head out of the job, before that is all he sees.

[duktig flicka]

I'm sorry, honey.

[Pandora's Box]

Thanks.

We're now beginning our 3rd day of not speaking to each other. Not a good thing. But perhaps some time off will help? I don't know.

But like I said, what will be, will be.

[allalone46]

Thanks.

We're now beginning our 3rd day of not speaking to each other. Not a good thing. But perhaps some time off will help? I don't know.

But like I said, what will be, will be.

If you are not talking than you are running the risk of loosing eachother. You have to have comunication, but constructive comunication. Not yelling at each other, or ending things in a huff. YOu need to be with each other, and not him at work and you complaining about it. You both also need to ask yourselfs the big question, and I hope that is you still want to be together. It sounds like you still love and want to be with him, and he you so that is were you begin, and talk to each other and work out the problems.

[Pandora's Box]

I reached out to him this morning. He needs to take a step towards me now.

And yes, we still do love each other. But love don't pay the rent, so to speak. Love, sometimes, is not enough. As much as we all want it to be.

So... yes, we need to talk. Seriously talk.