I'll take a chance at answering D's question with the following quote:
"The American Indian deplores arguing over "The exactness" of attempted description of the great power that Created All. As many holy ones have advised me. " It is a Mystery, leave it at that; no one can describe such a vast mystery."
North American Indians beleived that there is a limit to the human brain, at least while a person lives upon this planet. There may be some higher answers in the spirit world where it is beleived our spirit travels, but to probe and argue with one another in this lifetime is considered utterly foolish and quite nonspiritual. " .........
"When a proselytizer approaches a traditional Indian and attempts to tell the indian that he or she has the only key to the spirit world beyond and that the Great Mystery can be explained as such and such, usually with hell-fire and damnation thrown in, the Indian at first feels a sense of pity for the proselytizer; in the end , the Indian regards such a one as ignorant. " ...
There are no answers specifically. Just Be.