Mistakes by a Dom/me

[Rhabbi]

I don't get this infallible Dom thing.

I do not either, but to me it seems to come more from the Domme side than from us. Do not get me wrong, I know that they are out there, but I usually class them as abusers and stay away from them, because all they are are power freaks.

But the Dommes who want to be called Goddess, they are differant. I guess the reason I cannot figure them is because I cannot relate on a personle level to a Domme, other than as a friend, that is.

It doesn't have to mean groveling. Aknowledging the misstake, understanding her emotions and explaining how I feel about it and what I'll do to minimise it happening again is what I do.

I wonder thoigh, if a mistake is bad enough, should we grovel? Sometimes it might be the only way to show the depth of our anguish.

One characteristic I do think is important for a good Dom is bravery, and that means an ability to critisize oneself in a constructive way. A man too proud to admit fault in a conflict is just a big coward.

Not the way I would say it, but definately to the point.