smiles* my first post.
i agree with a lot of what GdRsDiamond posted in her response, but there is one other point to look at. Is she in a state, at that time that she is unable to tell that she is reaching a danger point? If so then would she be unable to safeword. Master and i have talked of this many times. i do agree she needs a friend with her to watch for her untill they know how she responds to certin things and she needs a friend to talk to one that she trusts and can go to that point in her mind to find out where she is, that she does not know that she may be getting hurt badly. There are lots of differant ways to look at it. But with out knowing her or those around her it is very hard to say what will help her.