Signs BDSM playtime is over???

I might not have experiences with police showing up or having to go to the ER - Thank God!! - but in my first and (unfortunately) to this day only experience with BDSM, I already came across one of these signs...

The said experience started with some delicious play - me being spanked for the first time, tied up, talked down to somewhat - I enjoyed it immensely!!
That is untill he after a short break returned in his old rag-tag bathing slippers, taped up in gaffa and whatnot!!!

A bigger turn-off I've never experienced, I don't know how he imagined I would be able to surrender to someone wearing those monstrosities, but there you go....

Though the day over-all was pretty good, it will never happen again with this particular man, I don't think I've recovered completely yet

duetta

(Just wanted to apologize for my grammar and possible spelling mistakes to the more sensitive members of this forum, though I speak English quite fluently, I can have trouble putting it on paper... er, or on screen )