Quote Originally Posted by robart
.Well, it is less complicated for them, isn't it? No need to be afraid to be forgotten in bondage or being baited by a mob of radical feminists...
ROFL!

Yeah, i think what MrJG (please correct me if i'm wrong Sir!) could have been referring to was trust; in that clearly you have to trust anyone you go to bed with to some extent, but to do a a BDSM related scene with them, there is a hugely increased need for it and therefore most 'one off' scenes would either be with someone you know or in a safe environment.

As for your actual question, i confess i am a little unclear as to what it actually is Are you asking if it's likely/possible that you would happen to meet an experienced submissive to do a one off scene with? Or are you asking how to get into BDSM? All in all i'd probably concur with the trust thing and ther last paragraph of TG's post.

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