Thanks,
Nikka: Yeah, I forget sometimes that everyone has their own motivations. Even book authors write for different reasons, and its important not to get bogged down by definitions and categories. Thats one of the beautiful things about this scene, YKOK.
jaeangel: Love/care is something not often emphasized when you are exposed to BDSM, especially on an entertainment-level. Its nice to hear someone else with the mentality "Doms/subs are people too." Unfortunately I've ran across some control-freaks and sadists who weren't looking out for anyone but themselves. I'm sure that's not a new story by any means. I'm saddened to think of how often it must keep recurring.
Anyways thanks for the feedback!![]()