I am ultimatesubbie (known as baby slut to Master who is also my husband). Master is relatively new to BDSM, and I have had several years playing and also living the lifestyle with a Dom and his slave for several months. I enjoyed discussing the lifestyle with others but I am not looking for anyone on a personal level whatsoever. I am still amazed that even though Master and I have been together nearly 2 years, He is never shocked at my perverted tastes (and they are many and varied!) I consider myself mainly hetro, but also have bi interests on ocassion.....
My motto is - each to their own......I used to be active in the scene in my city but Master isn't interested in that, so we don't go. Our play is always private and intimate.