Is It A Conscious Decision?

[frankee]

That's it!!

Each subbie is different!!!

For some, it may take being punished once...for others it could take a lot longer.

When we are given a task, we set out to complete the task without failure.
We do not have the attitude in the back of our minds, 'well if it's too hard, screw Him/Her and i'll just do what i want'. THAT IS NOT an attitude that most subbies have!

NOW...this brings me to this...if you, as a subbie do not make 'so called deliberate mistakes' or if you are a Dom/me and have collared a 'so called perfect subbie', well then...what the hell is the purpose of any kind of friggin training???

OH and one more thing....You Dommly ones, try CR for 4 or 5 weeks, constantly being aroused and told to play with yourself, BUT DON'T CUM!! Try it and see what happens to your state of mind. i was on CR for a few days and i thought i was going to lose my fucking mind!!

Ok, there...my rant is over! Gotta find me some chocolate before i burn the damn place down!

[submissive sugar]

That's it!!

Each subbie is different!!!

For some, it may take being punished once...for others it could take a lot longer.

When we are given a task, we set out to complete the task without failure.
We do not have the attitude in the back of our minds, 'well if it's too hard, screw Him/Her and i'll just do what i want'. THAT IS NOT an attitude that most subbies have!

NOW...this brings me to this...if you, as a subbie do not make 'so called deliberate mistakes' or if you are a Dom/me and have collared a 'so called perfect subbie', well then...what the hell is the purpose of any kind of friggin training???

OH and one more thing....You Dommly ones, try CR for 4 or 5 weeks, constantly being aroused and told to play with yourself, BUT DON'T CUM!! Try it and see what happens to your state of mind. i was on CR for a few days and i thought i was going to lose my fucking mind!!

Ok, there...my rant is over! Gotta find me some chocolate before i burn the damn place down!

The Dom I was speaking of did this once WITH me as we started out online and were a long distance relationship it played a big part in the sexual aspect of our relationship ... Everyday we would get online and he would tease me and me being the flirty (sometimes bratty) girl that I am would tease back ... this went on for a couple of hours everyday for two weeks. It was agonizing ... many a time I THOUGHT to myself screw this I'm getting my vibrator out *laughs* but never did it. Anyways, during this time we would be on cam and what not. He was always erect and very aroused as I was and I just assumed that after we said our goodbyes that He went and relieved himself, thinking that He was trying to be supportive knowing I was having such a hard time. Boy was I wrong. At the end of the two weeks when He came for one of his monthly visits I was allowed to cum and He did too after some playtime. He THEN told me that He had been withholding the whole time too because He wanted to go through the experience with me. To this day even though this Dom and I are no longer together, we are great friends and I hold him in the highest regard.

*laughs* I'm sorry this was totally off topic, but your comment totally made me think of that.

Back on topic ... Yes Lily that's EXACTLY my thinking ... certain things it would have to be a concious thought to disobey but others like you said ... behavior modification .... well that just takes time and training and hopefully a Dom who's pretty understanding.

[frankee]

The Dom I was speaking of did this once WITH me as we started out online and were a long distance relationship it played a big part in the sexual aspect of our relationship ... Everyday we would get online and he would tease me and me being the flirty (sometimes bratty) girl that I am would tease back ... this went on for a couple of hours everyday for two weeks. It was agonizing ... many a time I THOUGHT to myself screw this I'm getting my vibrator out *laughs* but never did it. Anyways, during this time we would be on cam and what not. He was always erect and very aroused as I was and I just assumed that after we said our goodbyes that He went and relieved himself, thinking that He was trying to be supportive knowing I was having such a hard time. Boy was I wrong. At the end of the two weeks when He came for one of his monthly visits I was allowed to cum and He did too after some playtime. He THEN told me that He had been withholding the whole time too because He wanted to go through the experience with me. To this day even though this Dom and I are no longer together, we are great friends and I hold him in the highest regard.

*laughs* I'm sorry this was totally off topic, but your comment totally made me think of that.

Back on topic ... Yes Lily that's EXACTLY my thinking ... certain things it would have to be a concious thought to disobey but others like you said ... behavior modification .... well that just takes time and training and hopefully a Dom who's pretty understanding.

WOW! That's pretty awesome ss!! *smiles*