Quote Originally Posted by jaeangel
There are a lot of so-called 'experts' in BDSM who will tell you that a sub has to be like this, and a Dom has to be like that. Don't listen to them.
Well said jaeangel.

That's like telling you that man must be like this and a woman must be like that. Or a house must be like this, or a wardrobe like that, or a reality tv program like the other.

Spike

or a hairstyle, or a car, or a mutter mutter mutter